Being Intuitive Didn’t Save Me From Bad Relationships
Here’s what did.
One of the greatest frustrations of my life was being intuitively and psychically gifted in relationships…and still struggling deeply in them.
I could read a room the second I walked into it—sometimes before I even arrived.
My partners and friends felt disarmed by how quickly I could name what they were feeling, often before they could.
I could see the dynamics of a relationship as if they were painted on the wall in front of me, clear as day.
And still: I struggled.
I read everything—boundaries, attachment, intimacy, communication.
I took the courses.
I learned the skills.
And I kept finding myself in relationships with people who could somehow make everything about them.
Or with people where I was doing all of the checking in, making plans, and initiating repair in order for the relationship to stay afloat.
I felt a lot of shame about that.
How could I see so clearly and still not be able to change anything?
For a long time, it made me doubt my gifts.
But here’s the truth I had to learn: insight isn’t the same as capacity.
You can see everything and still shut down when your partner says they want a weekly date night and for you to plan it.
You can understand relationships deeply and still feel small, angry, and resentful when someone talks over you in conversation instead of saying what you’re actually feeling.
That was the missing piece for me.
And that’s why I created The Unshakable Core: A 10-day immersive experience for intuitives and sensitives who over-function, overthink, or shut down in relationships and are ready to shift the pattern for good.
Not to give you more insight and awareness, but to teach you how to relate to yourself in real-time.
That is true intimacy.
This is for you if:
You can read everyone else so clearly but feel like it’s nearly impossible to meet quality, mutual, reciprocal friends as an adult
When you open up in your relationships and they make it about themselves, you feel abandoned and shut down
When conflict comes up, you track the other person’s patterns instead of staying with what you’re feeling
When your needs aren’t being met, you work harder to explain, justify, and correct instead of noticing what it brings up in you
Inside the Unshakable Core you’ll practice:
Learning how to stay with your overwhelm, irritation, or shut down when your partner says they want a weekly date night and for you to plan it
Saying what you’re actually feeling when someone talks over you in conversation instead of getting small and feeling angry and resentful
Naming and feeling the consequences of the pattern in your relationships where you’re doing more of the checking in, planning, and initiating of repair
That cycle where you understand everything and still end up in the same relationship, different name and face?
That stops here.
This is for people who are done understanding their patterns and are ready to actually move differently inside of them.
We start soon.
Can’t wait to see you inside,
Grey
P.S. Join me for The Unshakable Core: A 10-day immersive experience for intuitives and sensitives who over-function, overthink, or shut down in relationships and are ready to shift the pattern for good.